It’s a Jungle out There – Yes, a Dating Jungle!
One of the most complicated things when it comes to love or actually the process of falling in love is meeting someone you possibly could fall in love with. The dating jungle is THE hardest, most unfair but on the same side most interesting jungle of all – except for the city jungle maybe.
In today’s society it actually is not a problem to become acquainted with someone because of various media where people connect and communicate, but also out there on the streets or in bars and clubs, because the younger generations tend to be more open about talking to someone or about flirting and just getting to know people.
The Philosophy of Dating
The principles of dating, though on the superficial obviousness seemingly easy, are harder to read, understand and follow than some people actually would believe.
All in all, preparing for a date is one of the most important phases in the dating process – it is not just the preparation of the body, the hair, the applying of the perfect make up, the dress or some things connected to the physical desirability. It is also the asking of questions like – Where do we go? What do we do? Dinner? Cinema? Cocktails? Or Online?
Especially when it comes to dating online you have to follow rules, because you are kind of in a different situation because you never know exactly the person on the other line reacts to a statement even if it was just a joke, but you have to keep in mind that in communication online you are bound to words, the language – and there is no way of showing expressions, gestures, mimic and emotions.
The main philosophy of dating is showing someone who you are in a very modest and kind manner and mostly not showing completely everything to keep making yourself interesting. It is about showing the places you like, your perfect positive environments, most favourite restaurant, most favourite film and things like that – though sometimes people unfortunately tend to play pretend and aren’t quite honest about their usual manner and typical behaviour – but situations like that are not something new in this world of glitter and glamour and blinding lights.
Dating Situations
The problem of planning a date is actually one of the oldest problems of all time – the distinguishing of any kind of people. Every human being has their own special, particular date in mind, the perfect environment they create themselves to kind of dream away sometimes, but also to set priorities or maybe better, to apply a standard for their life. In this way people differentiate from one another, as they always used to do. So, it is hard to say, what the best dating situation might be, but it is kind of a proven fact, that going to a movie isn’t good for the communicational process, because it is hard or even impossible to talk to one another when you are supposed to be quiet. But a movie is a good choice, if you have been at dinner before or took several drinks, because a communicational base is set and there is the chance – if the daters like each other – to cuddle a little bit or maybe even to kiss innocently.
This is of course, a good dating situation, actually the best situation you could see yourself in. Some people wonder, if they should bring a gift – like flowers, or chocolate or maybe pralines – but actually opinions are very split when it comes to this topic of etiquette. Truth be told, most woman do not postulate a gift (mostly flowers) because in today’s society women tend to think of it as a kind of old fashioned manner, though I would definitely recommend to bring a white or pink rose (definitely not red, because red means love and this signature colour/flower is definitely too much for the first date) because of the surprise effect and above all, it is a nice and kind gesture of friendship.
The world of dating is a complicated and hard one, because you have to be aware that besides the possibility of falling in love it is more likely that you might get disappointed, but that should not stop you in your search (for some even hunt) of Mr. /Mrs. Right, because all you need is love, a lot of love and people do look good all dressed up in love.
Actually it is a proven fact that it is good for your health to be happily in love, because the endorphins your body pours don’t just help you to look good and healthy, but also strengthen your immune system and you are less likely to get sick or catch a cold.
So all you have to do is to go out and meet people and maybe one of these will be your personal prince charming/ princess in distress.